Dear Zakirah,

It's hurt when people you know become people you knew, when you can walk right past someone like they were never a big part of your life, how you used to be able to talk for hours and how now, you can barely even look at them. It hurts so much that when you cry tears doesn't even help. It's sad how things change. Isn't it?

That's what we called life aye?A roller coaster. It's got its ups and downs, but in the end it was worth it. Be patient with life, despite its cruelty.

I'll bet you've had about enough of people telling you how strong you are and how strong you are doing during this awful, difficult period of your life

I hope those hardship make you realize now that every hardship in your life or relationship has provided an opportunity for more soul growth. The low spots in your relationship, the times you didn't feel love, gave you so much more gratitude for the love that was and is there all the time. Every dark time has allowed you to more deeply appreciate and experience the light that is within you. Every argument, every tense moment, every sad time has, by its very contrast, brought renewed appreciation of the times of love.

If you can only be more patient with and accepting of the difficulties in life, you will more deeply receive the gifts and blessings of life. Sometimes it took you a long time and much painful boomeranging of your expectations to finally understand the real meaning of life.

What's the problem with being childish sometimes? There's no point in being grown up if you can't be childish sometimes. It's only that when you were a child, you spake as a child, you acted as a child, you understood as a child, you thought as a child, but when you grew older, you should put away silly childish things.

During this difficult period of life I do believe all you need is just a loving hand to hold and a caring heart to understand. Treat him well. Tell him how much you care and appreciate him.

Till then.

Bunch of loves n cares from Seoul.