12 December 2007

Antara terang dan kabur - Kyongju - South Korea

True Love - is it predestined?

(i)
My answer would be….no. What is “true love” anyways? We fall in love with the people we are around, people we have the same interest in and so forth. I personally don’t believe that everyone has that “one soul mate” and that its possible to fall in love with many people and probably have successful marriages with them as well. Obviously not all at once but, depending on what choices you make in life depends on who you will come in contact with. Love is a complicated thing that is definitely portrayed in many different ways and many people just think that love and sex go hand in hand. I believe this is why sex is such a huge topic in our society. Sex becomes synonymous with love and after all, who doesn’t want to be loved?

(ii)
I always wondered what the person is thinking when that person is constantly telling their “current” lover they love them. Then the cycle starts over again. Would that make the person doubt what’s real and what isn’t? Including believing sex is the only way to make a relationship thrive. By going through this cycle, would this hinder their thoughts of livelihood satisfaction and happiness?

1 whisper(s):

Hilmi Ramlan said...

True u are mate.. but then again, everything HAS been written for us by Allah.. When we were created by God, our history and future was written on a stone in Heaven by Him. So yes, i believe things ARE pre destined. BUT it is also true were ur argument comes in. The whole idea of choosing and decisions. Right decisions will alter the right things. But as humans, we are MEANT to decide wrongly at times. :) So yea.. But what the heck.. sometimes we just chose wrongly for our own dispute and of own entertainment and such.


Yes yes...sex and love.. well love is such a huge topic to begin with. Personal love? Family love? hehehe it's huge mate. ;) sometimes radicalism isnt what we utter for in life.. so just get along with whatever u have got NOW..hahahha :P