Seoul - South KoreaCan a person loves 2 person (or maybe more) at the same time?
(does not involves siblings/families/friends/foes)
Like they used to be in love with someone from the past; probably their first love but as for now, they are in love with their current partner and still love (not in love anymore but juz love) that someone from the past? Does that mean they have so much love inside them until they are capable of handling few person(s) at the same time? What about those men who practices polygamy? Marrying 2/3/4 wives? Coz they have so much love to 'upload'? Or izzit becoz it's started off as mere lust/attractions? Then only LOVE came into picture? At least married men MADE IT LEGAL. Whatever things in the bedroom or inside the closet would be another story.
And what about those (unmarried/singleton) who are able to love so many? Or u would juz choose one ultimate person u could love for the rest of ur life? And share every love u have with only him/her? None others?
Can u be in love with 2 person (or maybe more) at the same time?
Note that 2 questions (in bold) seems similar but it's actually different from one another. As for me, i believe that every single person on this earth are able and capable to love and to be in love with more than one person at the same time. It's a matter of choice. To be with one ONLY. Determination to stick/focus on ONE. So whatever things that falls into your way especially lust u r able to get rid of it instead of accepting it as ur fate. Dah jodoh nak wat camne. Dah takdir nak wat camne. Dah terjatuh cinta, nak wat camne. Then wham bang - secret affairs/love triangle came into picture. It's so thrilling and yet so heartwrenching.
Or in the end if u choose to have both person(s)/all. Handle it well then. Even honesty is the best policy, no one would ever have the courage to say - hei i love them both (but in a different way)? Yeah riteee....But then there's always a risk (calculated risk to be exact), u might end up losing everything. And then only u know u were declared bankruptcy in the love bank. U r totally broke.
So much love to 'upload' and 'download' kan? Whose loss izzit anyway? Ouccchh.
2 whisper(s):
Well brother, all i can say is that. People.. no wait. humans! were born with lust. lust and infatuation. we cant help it. honestly. when it comes to polygamy, that's when you and your mind comes into play.
Supposedly you have two people, girls.... DUH.. unless u were gheyyy.. hehe.. well, they MUST receive the same love u give to the both of them. u HAVE to be fair. honestly yea? i think nowadays that's just bullshit. because, many use religion as a means of marrying more than one. especially our people back home. it's just shite i tell u.
anyway, it contradicts mens beliefs. as to how we say, I LOVE YOU. how could you possibly say the same thing to another person of a different face. and a different personality?!
well yes, Allah did mention;
Minnan Nissa'
WOMEN
so yeah, men are always with lust and crap. so that's why Allah has allowed us to marry four. hehe.
for me, i'd not be able to love more than one. *not including family members here* =P
;)
1. Agree with your opinion. ANYONE can love more than one person. It's really possible, I tell you. Take Rasulullah s.a.w for example. He loved Khadijah, and then she passed away. After that he married 'Aisyah, and he could still love her. And then he married the other Ummahatul Mu'minin (Rasulullah's wives), and he could still loved them all.
It IS possible, but you must be fair. I agree with Hilmi's statement above: "men are always with lust and crap". But lust is actually a test. If your Iman is strong, lust will be a small matter to you. It won't be a thing that can make you go astray. But if it's otherwise, then yeah, it's gonna be the thing that leads your life. It's gonna be the sole thing that you want to fulfill in your life. You choose. Yes, you CAN choose. It's not that we humans don't have choices.
But you must be fair la. If you choose to love more than one person, you need to consider their feelings also. Will they be willing to share your love. It's hard, you know. I don't think many girls would be willing to.
2. I don't think I can love 2 or more persons at a time. That's just crazy!! I can't divide my heart, lol. I only have one. Once I give it to someone, then it's his to keep (unless if he gives it back to me, ouch!). I wouldn't trade it or share it. Nor would I give it out freely.
I think it's a girl's nature la. All girls want to be considered special. They want to be sought. And guys, since they're the seekers, just can't get enough of only one. Some of them are greedy. I wonder why guys can't stick to only one girl. Is it so hard to do? Just be loyal la. Don't hurt the girl. It's bad when you do so. Girls are so fragile :)
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