Is it possible to be with someone who you are VERY intellectually connected, emotionally attached but NOT physically attracted to? Does physical attraction plays a major role or it does not really matter in a relationship? Does the package of a person goes beyond that? Well, if it does/does not really matter…BUT would it be OK to be with someone but minus out the physical factor?
Would you give it a try for the sake that you’ll never know what will happen in the future that given time u might change your feelings (being physically attracted to) toward him/her and would go another step further? Or probably you just put a stop there, cause it’s not worth trying, draw the line and stay as the best of friend cause friendship worth even more?
Which risk would u take?
How would u rank chemistry/personality – intellect, emotion, physical?
Oh, don’t tell me all 3 are rank on the same level – as equally important? That’s bullshit too perfect. There’s no such thing as a perfect individual, cause if they do exist, life would be a perfect fairy tale. Whatever or whichever pick u rank, it’s ok cause at least you know yourself better and what you really want or expect from a person you wanna be with at the moment, if not for the rest of your life.
After all, we’re only human. Just human. And it's still OK to be selfish, just to guard our own feeling.
10 February 2008
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Great subject. I feel so interested to give my opinion on this.
1. I believe that it's possible to be with someone who you are intellectually connected, emotionally attached, but not physically attracted to. I hate it when ppl are attracted to someone bcoz of the physical factor. It's too materialistic.
I believe that a good relationship happens when you can imagine yourself loving a person minus the physical factor. What if he/she loses the thing that makes you attracted to him/her before? Would you still love him/her? Physical appearance is just one part of the person. There's so many other parts that you need to love of that person before you can say that you love him/her as a whole. Emotions, intelligence, attitude, spirituality. So many. And they're the things that you don't see with your eyes, but with your heart.
2. I think if the person you're in love with is naturally attractive (i.e. beautiful), then that's a bonus. Of course you'll want to live with someone who has good looks too. But that shouldn't be the main reason for loving him/her.
3. Chemistry, to me, is so abstract. We don't see it, yet we can feel it. I think chemistry is when two people feel naturally connected and compatible. I don't know, it's too abstract, but you'll know it when you feel it.
4. Intellect, emotion, physical: I'd rank emotion at the top of my list. Then intellect, and physical. Emotion is soooo very important, in my opinion. I need to feel a deep emotional connection with someone before I'd say those 3 words. And I think, emotion relies on chemistry. Chemistry can happen naturally, and it can even be built.
Sorry if you can't understand my words. This topic is too abstract, it's so hard to find the right words to explain what's on my mind.
I figure it would be too long to comment here, so i made a post to answer u
enjoy
amazing that those 3 words can make miracles.
u know, me of all. hehehe those three words im wanting to hear. :) insyaAllah.
anyway. aku tgh demam lar.. :( so yeah hehehe.. cam malas nak blog these few days.. bangun pun lambat haih
u take care lad ;)
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